My City !

My City! My City! No matter what we all love coming or being home. Home is really where the heart is. I can go away for weeks and have the time of my life and come home to Dayton, Ohio and still feel on top of the world. But that’s only because I know how to deal with what I’m surrounded by, negative or positive. But do you ? I doubt it. We let what others say determine our actions and never listen to ourselves. When I’m home theirs so much negativity. Not saying great things don’t happen in my city because great things do happen and their are positive people. What I am saying is we don’t support each other enough. Some down people of their dreams when they don’t think that they are capable themselves. I see someone doing great in my city and I’m like they doing the damn thing, proud of them. But their are those who will say, how they do that? Somebody helped them! That ain’t shit! You know how he/she got that right?…ETC ! Where’s the support ? If it is someone’s dream let them live it ! This goes for every city. Now is the time for us all to come together and lift each other up when we are down. Give encouragement. If we are all building together, who can stop us? Ugh Nobody !!!! I think about those who tell me I cannot do something and I’m like how can you say that. How come I can’t? Anything is possible ! I create my reality the way I want it to be. I’m not living my life miserable. Those who down others dreams are those who don’t have a vision for themselves. But one can always be created. The love I have for my city is exactly the type of love everyone else should have for their city. But I am sick and tired of the pain we put each other through. You mad someone else getting money? Why? You can get money too! You mad cause someone is traveling? You can travel too? You talking down on someone living their dream? Why? Create your happiness yourself. You down talking someone and what their doing is not going to stop them or put you in a better position. In fact it will push them to be and do better. It takes less energy to support, more energy to hate. Get inspired by the positive things in your city. Try expanding the minds of those who are being negative. Work together! My city is small but I often think about the what ifs. Could we go without violence for months in my city? Could we hold peaceful events every week? Could we share are dreams with each other without a negative comment being said? Truth is…yea we could. But it will have to be done together. I have a idea. Lets try to do something that will make a difference in our city everyday. It can be big or small. Pick up trash, ask to shovel someone’s driveway free of charge, help someone elderly, volunteer somewhere, give some positive advice, write a positive letter to a company, help an organization, give! For once let’s just put a smile on someone’s face and not even think a negative thought. The time is now. I am from Dayton, Ohio and I believe that change can be made. Love.


Who Are We?

Who are we? Who are you? Have you tried to figure it out? Most people will wait and wait, but why wait. We are the creators of our life. We have absolutely everything we need to create our realities. Some people will tell you you cannot do that you don’t have enough money, laugh at you…etc. But who are they to tell you what you can do and they never even tried. And if they did try, failed and gave up! But thats not who you are in fact thats not who we are. We are designed to go through the toughest things. We are strong! And if we fall we must get back up! We are strong women…strong men. I talk to many people. I hear their stories, past and present. And the strength in others allows me to be stronger. We are human beings that have the power to be anything we want to be. Today should be the day that you change your life for the better. And once you change in a positive way you will notice how things in your life become better. You will find out who you really are. If you don’t know your gift, find it! Try different things,  learn new things. Its not hard at all. You got a dream… chase it! Do everything to get it! Create that everyday drive of I will not stop no matter what! I am tired of people saying ugh ! I dont want to go to work, I hate my job!…etc. Stop complaining and create a better life for yourself…do some soul searching. Find out who you are. If you do what you love you will not complain and you will have a better life…Even when I see someone talking or being negative I always know theirs something more.  Theirs always something better. We are positive,  wise, beautiful,  handsome, smart, happy, wealthy,  kind, giving,  ambitious, loving and most of all we are strong…all of us!

Let’s Talk About Change…

When I say change I mean it’s time to change for the better. First time somebody hear the word change they get offensive. People have the idea that change is bad. They’re stuck in society and what society thinks. They say…ohhhh no I’m not going to change I’m going to be me. I just think like, you all are missing the whole meaning of change. I’m not saying not be you or be somebody else. I’m saying…Be Better! We all have the ability to be better. Don’t be afraid to change, just do it! I’m sure that you get tired of the same results. That is because you are doing the same things. Try something new, try something bigger than the usual. Think bigger, better! You will see results that will shock you. Change is very important when getting the things you want and need in life. I mean, really think about this. Change is what you want to see in the world right? So you first have to seek it within. Believe in your ability to change for the better. And you will have the power to change anything.