A Boy Told Me…

A boy told me wait up for me.
A boy did not show up.
A boy said you are the only one.
A boy had more than one.
A boy said I love you.
A boy did not mean it.
A boy said when we moving together?
A boy is planing to move with someone else.
A boy says he’s honest.
A boy is not!
A boy blah blah blah!!!!!!
The difference between a boy and a man, very clear…one speaks one shows. An average girl cannot tell the difference but a woman ohh she knows. But us women have such big hearts we let the boys in and try to see if they can be molded. We give ourselves headaches than wanna blame them. LOL it ain’t they fault it’s ours. Females are extremely smart and I don’t understand why we put ourselves through the many things we go through but guess what, it’s time for a change. Get on your shit! Do what you love! And light will be attracted to you. If that guy you so in love with doesn’t notice you’re a great woman and is giving you more pain than love he does not deserve you. Accept the situation as is and move forward. Tired of seeing women be weak. I’m not average you not average so act like it! I bumped my head a few times I’d admit but I’m young. And no I’m not making an excuse I’ve learned. But I see women 40 and up blaming men. Maybe he’s old, maybe he’s young, maybe he’s not ready, maybe he’ll never be ready, maybe he’s stuck in the past. Whatever the case, don’t be so down on yourself because of the person you’re trying to pursue. I think people get so involved with giving so many chances, crying and asking the guy to love them being mad at other girls the guy mess with etc that they forget to put more into they self. You putting more negative energy into the situation it’s not going to get better. Put more into you! Positivity is key. Balance is key. Do what’s best for you first and the rest will follow…I promise. We are phenomenal ladies! Now is the time to do better. P.S I’m going to take my own advice, know that! 😉

Advertisements

Find Your Peace…

Really, what brings you peace? Think about it for a second. Our minds most of the time are filled with a million thoughts. It’s important for us to find peace and make peace with everything. When you are at peace life seems easier and your thoughts calm down. My peace…well I have many. My favorite place is my bathtub. I run a bubble bath, light candles and turn on smooth music. I close my eyes and imagine my personal paradise. Alone I am there with my feet in the sand staring at the waves. Feeling abundant ! You gotta try it! Close your eyes and create a place that you will never want to leave. A negative thought will not come over you because you will be exactly where you want to be. I also meditate. I try to meditate for at least 30 minutes a day. Meditation is one of the reasons I am so positive. Your body is relaxed and you’re taken away to the most peaceful place. I don’t care if your mate is your peace, your pet, your family, a destination just find it. You need it! Hell we all need it! When you are at peace you will see your life began to change. You won’t worry as much, you will than accept those situations that cause a billion thoughts. Peace is the way…peace is what you need. 😊

It’s okay to be Human…

I’m all about being positive but it’s okay to be human. We are going to go through things. And every bad situation we go through happens to build our strength. Not only that but it prepares us for what’s to come next. When something happens in your life that you weren’t expecting surrender to it. Not saying you’re being a wuss. Just saying accept the situation. Look at it in a few different ways. Everything happens for a reason. So the situation is there but not to stress you out. Don’t dwell on it accept it realize why it’s there and move forward. It will be days when you cry that’s okay let it out. We will mistakes and don’t beat yourself up cause of it move forward and don’t make the same mistake. And if you do, learn from that as well. We all are human, shit happens. And we all are strong enough to endure the pain. I’m here to tell you it’s okay 🙂